“When your spouse can’t see Christ in you, it matters little what others think they can see.” -Carey Nieuwhof
Archives For Marriage
I received another book from the Thomas Nelson Booksneeze program. This one is called “This is Your Brain In Love” by Dr. Earl Henslin.
I have been married for over 12 years now so anything I can read about how to keep passion going, how to fix communication or how to realize how many issues are my fault (I hate that part) I will read.
This book is about identifying your “love style” and talks about scientific research into brain scans. Now I know what you are thinking now that you just read that line. BORING! Amazingly enough I read this book in about an hour and it kept my attention just fine.
I really liked his take on the sacrament of Sex and how sex is typically tacked on almost as an addendum to marriage or a perk. Dr. Earl tries to make you realize that sex and spirituality go hand in hand in creating a healthy marriage.
After that he discusses the issues in our brains and how to have healthy brains so we can eliminate issues.
He identifies the five types of lovers, with ground-breaking insights and effective solutions for the challenges presented by each:
* Scattered Lover
* Over-focused Lover
* Blue Mood Lover
* Agitated Lover
* Anxious Lover
There are 5 tests in the book and it teaches you to analyze the results. They are simple 3 minute tests. I learned a lot by them, but I also ranked broderline on every test. I don’t know if that means I’m am only slightly screwed up or if it means that I have every one of the issues he discusses.
Either way this was a great read with valuable insight. I am passing it along to my wife this week so we can talk some of the topics through. I would recommend this book to anybody who is married even if you are “issue free”.
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So if you are married you know that it takes work and sometimes isn’t easy…mostly cus women are nuts and guys are dumb. Ha ha.
With knowing this and dealing with it why the heck would anybody want to be a Mormon? Yes they get thier own planet in the after life and that is cool, but being a polygamist must be really tough.
I am stoked and very thankful I have one amazing and super hot wife because I don’t think the more the merrier applies to marriage.