A funny thing happened the other evening at our mens group…
Let me preface this with the fact that our church has about 65 – 75 people coming on sunday morning so that you know that this is not a large church.
My dad, who is the pastor, and I were discussing doing a makeover on our drum kit. We were talking about getting new cymbals and heads and maybe throwing a shield on it and mic’ing it. We will be moving into a new building soon and want to get the best sound possible. Currently our drummer is also our pastor and while he is a professional drummer it isn’t always an ideal situation.
As we were discussing it one of the guys in our small group pipes up and says.
“I can probably get you some zildjian cymbals for really cheap.”
My dad and I whipped around. WHAT!
It was now time to drill this guy. How does he even know about drums at all? Why had he never told us that?
He proceeded to tell us that he would be happy to setup the kit for us and that he used to be a drum tech.
He worked with bands like alice & chains, Tool, and the black crowes among others.
Of course our jaws hit the floor.
Are you kidding. Why have you not..? huh?
He told us ways of making drums sound better that even we had never heard before. He told us you can put cotton balls in the bass drum instead of using a pillow so you can add and subtract to get the best sound and more.
We then went to get some coffee where this man also told us he played drums. I don’t know if he is good or not, but he just may be.
When we asked him why in the 4-5 months of being in the church, connecting with people, and coming to a mens meeting of about 7-8 guys had he not brought this up he answered.
“I was waiting for God to bring it up and for Him to open the door”
I have to tell you I ride the fence with that reply. I love the faith aspect of it, but I also think there are people who have so much to offer and instead of laying everything out on the table they are waiting for God to present a situation.
Praise God this man opened up and he will have the opportunity to be used in the kingdom, but he is just one our people.
Remember we are a church of about 70 or so people and were in desperate need of a drummer. This man, who I really have grown to enjoy in our mens meetings, was completely untapped.
I can’t imagine how much more prevalent this situation is with the larger churches.
So how do we get people who are commited to the church to lay everything on the table, and let us know thier hidden talents?
How do we best utilize people if we don’t even know what they are skilled to do?
We have done the questionnaires and they have yielded little to know fruit.
This man was praying God would present the situation for him to open up about it. I think that is very admirable.
My question though is…maybe we are the situation. Maybe God is waiting for us leaders to get people to lay it on the table.
So how do we do it? Any thoughts? tried and true methods?